I have been married to a sex addict. We have never consummated our marriage. We started out with passion and chemistry, but after we were married the nightmare began. He has lied everyday he has lived and worked with me. We started an office together, but i worked hard and he looked at pornography on the internet. After, confronting him over and over, I left the office. He was on his own. I kept our home clean and tried to recover from the stress and anxiety of living the loneliness life with this man. I had to accept that he couldn’t love me enough to tell me that, it wasn’t me. He denied having a problem. In the years that followed his clients would contact me and say he never would call them back. One day one of his clients called me asking for help, because my partner had taken a $160k from him. I was so ashamed, but agreed to help him confront and get his money back.
longest story told: I have lived in a 12 year nightmare. I moved out and started over without him. He still thinks he can lick his problem. He told me about this website and decided to write this piece. I am a lovely woman and have kind to my husband. His face is filled with pain most of the time. I don’t think I will ever be the same. I want t o know how I ended up this man?